Sh*t I Don’t Wear Because I’m Old And I Live In Paris

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I’ve been seeing articles recently like “Things Women Over 40 Should Wear” (Answer: whatever the fuck they want) and others in the same vein. I am so in agreement with them. I did not get to this age to give a single fuck about what people think I should or shouldn’t be wearing.

However, there are clothes that should forever be packed away because I am wise enough to know when something looks absolutely ridiculous/awful/embarrassing on me. At least, I hope I am. If you see me looking ridiculous, awful and/or embarrassing, for the love of god and good taste, please pipe up.

I also live in Paris, where sneakers as everyday shoes just became acceptable like last year and women would rather be force-fed lard than go out in activewear. Classic silhouettes in a subdued palette of black, cream, grey and navy blue osmosed into my wardrobe with me barely noticing. And while I daydream about being quirky and colorful, I open my dresser and it’s a black hole of Zara tops. I’m no Man Repeller or OG Iris Apfel, sadly.

So in no particular order, shit I don’t wear anymore because I’m old and I live in Paris…


Booty Shorts (with or without words across the bum)

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This requires no explanation.

Strapless Anything

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I mourn the days when I was flatter-chested because I could go bra-less and wear all manner of strapless things without having to consider fleshy overhang and flabby underarms. While I now fill a B-cup, it’s doubtful my YSL lace-up silk corset will ever be worn again—by me, anyway. (How lucky is that daughter of mine?)

Low-Rise Jeans

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Were we all high when we took fashion direction from Britney, Paris and Lindsay? I must have been because I owned not one, but several pairs of jeans that barely scaled my mons pubis. Pre-babies, I thought a muffin top was simply the best part of a muffin (Top of the Muffin to you!*) Post-babies, I can’t decide whether muffin top or doughnut is the more accurate term for what’s happening around my belly. All my jeans are currently high-waisted of the mom and boyfriend variety. And I don’t care how young and amazing your body is, just say no to ass-crack.

Crop/Midriff-Baring Tops

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It was the worst of times when I wore my lowest-rise jeans with a tiny crop top in public (like Britney, bitch!) Photographic evidence exists of this crime against nature and style, but it’s been long-buried with the attendant shame. If I’m going to be honest, crop tops should never have been part of my fashion lexicon. At my thinnest, I still had no waist and a rice-bowl belly (my Asian girls know what I’m talking about). Also, tramp stamp. So unless I take a page from the Kardashian waist-training book (I won’t), crop tops are dead to me. You’re welcome, eyes of the world.

Stripper Heels

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Seriously, WTF?

Bodycon Dresses

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I like to imagine I once looked good in skintight dresses. The difference now is I know (slightly) better. Case in point to the slightly part: This dress. In a postpartum delirium, I bought it thinking I’d fit into it “some day soon.” What middle-aged mom-of-two, carrying 20+ kilos of baby weight, thinks that?! Especially about a dress clearly designed for the Disney set? My baby is four-years-old and this dress still sits in my closet with its tags.


What I Do Wear

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Regrettable style choices have been made in my past. Based on this list, it appears I dressed like an off-duty exotic dancer most of the time. (Really appreciate you looking out for me, NYC friends. This is why I never call you.) Thanks to age, wisdom and geography, it seems my biggest fashion mistake going forward will be erring on the side of safe and boring. A thousand French girls can’t be wrong, can they?

*Seinfeld! Always Seinfeld


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